You know these words: romance, seduction and dominance. You might call it “game” but it’s really Masculine Arts. Let a man loose in a bedroom with a woman waiting to be swept off her feet, and he quickly understands the art involved — and the anxiety.
These bedroom styles are hit or miss for many men. When they hit, it seems like a stroke of luck. When they miss, you end up talking all night instead of doing it. The art forms of flirting and seduction as well many other subtleties are involved in true connection. These are built on attunement, embodiment and boundaries, among others — abilities that no one teaches young men. Yet they are learnable skills that, when practiced and layered, create the foundations of male confidence and sexual fulfillment.
Masculine arts is often about presence over action. Talking isn’t always needed to communicate your information. Eye contact, for instance, is a wordless exchange that speaks volumes and can make or break a connection. Eye contact seems basic but is quite vulnerable. The command of its timing, intention and message makes it a key masculine art in early seduction — without which no connection is made.
Masculine arts can be learned
Masculine arts bring out the skill of genuine human connection that you naturally have within you. It uplifts everyone around you, not just with attractive women, but also friends, family, kids, babies, dogs. The rewards of real love, satisfying relationships and good sex follow naturally as people want your company. In the masculine arts, you become your best self.
The first step is resetting your mind to see masculine arts as a playground full of new toys. And attend to yourself with curiosity, self-interest and care. If this is a new way of being, it’s time to reach out and get support. I have helped men discover their own masculine artistry. It shows in how he loves and is loved by women. He’s rare and in high demand. This man already exists within you. I encourage you to let him out to play.